Hi! well I just woke up an hour or so ago... I was supposed to go get my haircut today but my Mom did the wash and kept coming into my room and waking me up (My room is also the wash room) So I got bitchy and decided not to go since I didn't get any sleep. Anyways... I think I'm going to go tomarrow and get it done.
Me and Elro are working on creating a Socionics paraphanalia store to sell shirts and mugs and stuff with cheesy socionics type slogans so that I can get up some money to go visit him in Tennesee or where-ever it is he lives. Damn good idea (Elro's) I hope you guys will buy much swag and fund my adventures since I'm too lazy to get a job. I'm thinking of including some random non-socionics related designs that would be just cool pictures and sketches I've drawn. :P
That's about it... I'm about to go walk up to the store to buy some smokes. And I'm trying to get ahold of "dude" so that I can get some "poison".
besides all this I've been talking off and on through Emails with my bestfriend that I've talked about on the 16T trying to help her get up the currage to deal this getting out of this ****ed up marriage she's gotten herself into. She wants to, but I can tell that she doesn't want to at the same time. She's wishing hard that it'll just fix itself and everything will be OK... but that's just not gunna happen IMO and the longer she stays with it the harder it's going to be to break it off without major drama and emo-explosions and stuff. Luckily she's got her 17 year-old daughter now so I think that'll help her to do the right thing since daughter comes #1 and husband comes #2. I sort of feel bad and manipulative talking to her since I'm taking a hardline negative stance to it all. But it's for her own good IMO. This is a bad scene she's gotten herself into. This guy doesn't leave the house and is trying to be Mr Controlling. He's also got some heavy abusive issues from growing up and I know it's ****ty to say that somebody that grew up with spousal abuse (his dad to his mom) automatically turns into an abuser... but I can see it in him.
At the same time of course I have to keep in mind and be carefull since I do have some strong feelings for her. It bounces between really good friendship and love. *sigh* Unfortunatly the love side of it tends to be when she's in trouble like this. So I have to be carefull to examine my own motivations and try not to talk her into something because I want to be with her since once situations like this end, I tend to go back to wanting to be just friends.
Complicated ****... lol I know... but that's how that part of my life goes. Anyways... that's my blogging for right now. Gotta go get them cancer sticks!
Me and Elro are working on creating a Socionics paraphanalia store to sell shirts and mugs and stuff with cheesy socionics type slogans so that I can get up some money to go visit him in Tennesee or where-ever it is he lives. Damn good idea (Elro's) I hope you guys will buy much swag and fund my adventures since I'm too lazy to get a job. I'm thinking of including some random non-socionics related designs that would be just cool pictures and sketches I've drawn. :P
Hehe. Sounds like Ne - Si interaction to me.
I wanna visit too! Someone send me tickets please? :P
I bet your tickets would be $$$$$$$$$. At least BG could get to TN for about $300... I'm hoping to win the lottery soon, when that happens I'd totally hook u up.
I think I would be too embarrassed to have my type on a t-shirt - so maybe I'll get a mug to use on special occasions.
BG - that sounds like a complicated situation - (the best friend thing, not the tacky merchandise). I think you should just tell her that although you think a divorce is a good idea, she should think things through for herself - also, tell her you love her very much (make it seem as cheesy as possible) and that you don't want her to get hurt (physically or mentally or whatever), then joke that you hope there isn't some ulterior motive behind your advice...wait for the divorce then lie low for two years before making a move...works everytime...
In front of his superiors he is not shy, even becomes aggressive. He knows that business only then goes perfectly if the necessary tempo is set from the very beginning.
